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Cord Cutting - Breaking Energetic Ties

Toxic family members can be a real drain on your energy and your life. If you have someone in your family who is constantly negative, critical, or just plain unpleasant to be around, it can be tough to keep up your own positive attitude and avoid getting bogged down in their toxicity.

One way to protect yourself from these toxic family members is to use a ritual to cut the energetic cords that connect you to them.

This spell will help you to release the negativity and toxicity of these family members so that you can live your own life more fully and happily.

To perform this spell, you will need:

  • 1 black candle

  • 1 white candle

  • 1 piece of black tourmaline

  • 1 piece of rose quartz

  • String

  • 1 tablespoon of olive oil

  • 1 bowl of water

  • 1 piece of paper

  • 1 pen

Begin this spell by casting a circle around you - hold straight out in front of you with your power hand an incense stick that is lit. Walk clock-wish in a circle and repeat:

"I cast the circle round and round, from earth to sky, from sky to ground. I conjure now this sacred space, outside time and outside space. The circle has been formed, and I am now safe between realms."

Write the name of the toxic family member on the piece of paper. Then, roll up the paper away from you and tie it around the black tourmaline with a piece of string.

Next, anoint the black candle with the olive oil and light it. Hold the black tourmaline in your non-dominant hand and visualize all of the negativity and toxicity being drained out of you and into the stone.

As you do this, say aloud:

"I release you from my life. I release you from my heart. I release you from my mind. I am free from your toxicity."

Repeat this three times. Then, blow out the candle.

Next, anoint the white candle with the olive oil and light it. Hold the rose quartz in your non-dominant hand and visualize all of the love and light flowing into you from the universe.

As you do this, say aloud:

"I am surrounded by love. I am surrounded by light. I am protected from negativity."

Repeat this three times. Then, blow out the candle.

Finally, take the black tourmaline and submerge it in the bowl of water. Leave it there overnight. In the morning, throw the water out and bury the stone in the ground.

As you do this spell, visualize the cords that connect you to the toxic family member being cut.

Feel the weight being lifted off of your shoulders as you release yourself from their negative influence.

You can do this with anything you feel does not serve you well - you can even do this cord cutting for a bad habit.

Instead of writing a name on the piece of paper write the bad habit or the thing you wish to be released from.


Don't forget to do the mundane things as well. This may include blocking cell phone numbers, emails, & social media. Having ZERO contact with the person.

If you have someone in your life that is toxic and physically feel threatened. DO NOT hesitate to call 911 or contact NH Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence.

You can also give this a try - another method for cord cutting.

Cut The Cords

Have you been in a long term relation and have recently broke up? How about married and are now in the divorce process? Maybe you have already been broken up for awhile, but you feel you can't move on. You may be tied down with some energetic bonds. This simple and easy spell allows you to break those 'chains' so you can move on and heal.

There is no malice in this ritual. It is simply removing energy ties, and is filled with calm, peaceful energy so that healing and harmony can embrace both parties so that they can move towards the healing process.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Using magick does not guarantee results. ♥ Be smart and be safe.

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