Self Confidence Spell
Channel Your Inner Light š„
Sometimes we lose sight of our own light. We forget that we are powerful and capable human beings. We question ourselves, mumble instead of speaking up, or let fear rule our decisions.
This spell is designed to remind you that confidence isnāt something you have to search forā¦ itās something you already ARE. All you have to do is turn it on.šš
YOU WILL NEED
One yellow or gold candle
Confidence-blend oil (or any carrier oil with one or more of the following added):
Sunflower
Orange
Bergamot
Ginger
Cinnamon
Rosemary
Small pin, nail, or carving tool
Paper
Citrine, Tigerās Eye, Sunstone or Carnelian
Setting Your Sacred Space
Take several deep breaths. Settle in and leave your stresses behind.
Light some incense or ring a bell if that is part of your practice. If using one of the crystals listed above, place it near the candle.
Hold the candle in both hands without lighting it.
Close your eyes and think of a time you felt strong, capable, and 100% you. Feel that empowering energy build until it fills every inch of your body.
Writing Your Intention Into the Candle
Use your pin, nail, or carving tool to write words or short phrases into the wax of the candle.
Try writing:
I Am Enough
I Trust Myself
Power
Fearless
Bold
Radiate
Fire
I Have What It Takes
I Shine
As you write, repeat: āAs I carve these words into this candle, I awaken the power that has always resided within me.ā OR say whatever comes to your heart.
Anointing the Candle
Drop a few drops of your confidence oil onto your fingertips.
Starting at the center of the candle, slowly rub upwards towards the wick.
Return to the center of the candle and rub downwards towards the base.
As you anoint your candle, visualize pouring liquid sunlight into it. Fill the candle with courage and a steadfast belief in yourself.
Repeat: āI light this candle with confidence, trust, and a strong belief in myself. May the flame of this candle remind me that the fire burns strongly within my soul.ā
Light Your Candle
Light the candle.
Slowly bring your gaze to the flame. Look into it.
Visualize all of your doubts dripping away like the wax.
See yourself walking confidently through life.
See yourself standing up straight.
See yourself trusting your instincts.
See yourself boldly walking towards your dreams.
See yourself loving and accepting who you are.
Get as deep into these visualizations as you can.
Say Your Affirmation
āI am worthy of success. I trust my wisdom. My voice matters. My light cannot be diminished. With every breath I take, I become stronger. With every step I take, I become more myself.ā
Three times.
Rest with the flame until youāre ready to finish.
Closing
When you are finished journal about your experience if you feel called to. Bring your hands to your heart and say: "The flame before me is a reflection of the flame inside of me. I bring this confidence with me through my thoughts, my words, and my actions. May I walk through this world with confidence, authenticity, and grace. So it is.ā
Again feel free to say your own words. If you say something straight from your heart, I promise you won't blow up - lol.
You can allow the candle to continue burning until it finishes or extinguish it peacefully.
Every time you burn this candle, reconnect with your intention and remember that confidence is something you build each day through practice, self-love, and by making empowering choices.
Blessed Be.
I've never been one for spells, but I understand the desire for a confidence boost. I remember standing in front of a class, my voice shaking, wishing for anything to calm my nerves. Over time, I learned confidence comes from practice and self-compassion, not magic. As a PhD student who works part-time at Last-Minute Assignments, I still remind myself of that. I was so anxious I'd search for assignment editing helpĀ just to feel prepared. This post is a reminder that the power is often within us. Cheers.