A great spell for this time of year…when you are feeling chaotic and overwhelmed…it’s perfect for when your spirit just needs a deep breath and a hug from the earth.
🌙 What You’ll Need
A small bowl of salt or dirt
A candle (white, green, or brown)
Something that smells like peace to you — lavender, cedar, chamomile, or even a favorite perfume
Your two hands and your beautiful intention
Holding boundaries with compassion means protecting your own energy, needs, and values without abandoning empathy or kindness for others. It’s not about being harsh or cold — it’s about being clear, grounded, and loving, both to yourself and the person you’re setting the boundary with.
Here’s how to do it:
🧭 1. Know Your Needs
Before you set a boundary, get clear on why you need it. Is it for your mental health? Your time? Your safety? Compassion starts with self-awareness.
“This isn’t selfish — it’s self-respect.”
🗣️ 2. Use Kind, Clear Language
Intent: To cleanse, protect, and spiritually charge a space for ritual, meditation, or everyday peace.
🕯️ Supplies:
White candle (for purity and protection)
Bowl of salt (for cleansing)
Bowl of water (for emotion and flow)